I have had the wonderful opportunity of becoming the chief caregiver for my husband of 42 years. He had spinal fusion surgery on 9/3/09 and we are working towards recovery.

I have been teaching about caregiving for many years with all kinds of hints and information. With the exception of taking care of my children and grandchildren, I have never had the chance to practice what I preach. Now I have.

First, let me tell you that caregivers are angels. The mere fact that they can dedicate themselves to tending to the needs of another elevates them to the level of Mother Teresa.

Post-op patients are not easy. I know this from many years in nursing. Post op patients who are your spouse are even more difficult as you love them directly and must suffer the slings and arrows that come your way without processing the words.

I lift my glass to all caregivers. You are unique in your jobs and without you the world would be less of a good place. Bless you all for all you do.

Your families love you for your time and dedication.

Please take some time for yourselves. I now realize just how precious that time can be, and how very necessary it is.